Here are some basic tips for conversations on a date with a woman:
- Stay positive.
- Never speak about the woman’s boyfriend or husband.
- Never criticize her friends, even if she criticizes them herself.
- Never speak about politics.
- Don’t joke about her.
Length of your stay
Never mention that you’re only visiting for a short time (e.g., two or three days). Some women think long-term, and I’ve been disqualified many times for making the mistake of revealing how long I’ll be in a particular city.
Topics to avoid:
When chatting with women, it’s usually a good idea to steer clear of topics that could cause controversy or make people uncomfortable. Instead, stick to subjects that most people can agree on. For example, talking about things like taking care of the environment or helping those in need is usually a safe bet. These topics can show that you care about important issues and can help you connect with others who feel the same way. Just remember to still be respectful of other people’s opinions, even when discussing things that seem universally agreed upon.
Compliments
Always adapt your compliments to the situation. At the beginning of the evening, be courteous. For example: “You’re a nice person,” “That’s a lovely dress,” or “Your hairstyle is very original.” These comments may sound simple, but I’ve found they can make a difference.
Later in the evening, after a drink, you may feel more comfortable being direct.
If the situation allows it, you can be more direct: “Your boobs are perfectly shaped” or “You look so hot.” For example, I interpret a woman wearing a low-cut dress that shows her breasts as intending to draw attention to them. In that situation, I would consider telling her she has beautiful breasts.
Positive responses
These responses can signal that a woman is interested in you. Consider them in context: a question asked in a lounge bar after two glasses of white wine can have a different meaning from the same question asked at work in the morning.
- Did you come on your own? (Means she wants to know if you have a girlfriend).
- Where do you live? (means “Is it possible to go back to your place?”)
- Do you live far away from here? (means “Can we get back to your place quickly?”)
- Do you live in a shared accommodation? (Can we make love without problems?)
- Will you stay here for a long time? (is it possible to see each other in the following days?)
- Do you have your car? (Do we have a way to get back to my place or yours?)
