First assumption: Some argue that hypergamy is justified because women seek a secure environment to raise their offspring. Here, I will demonstrate why this notion is flawed.
When we examine the spending habits of hypergamous women, we find that they desire luxurious products and services that are not essential for raising children.
For instance, items such as a swimming pool, a high-end SUV, or a large house in remote vacation destinations are not necessary for childcare. You don’t need a luxury SUV like a BMW, Audi, or Range Rover just to drop your children off at school. Likewise, purchasing an oversized house solely for the children’s sake is unnecessary. These extravagant expenses are driven by the materialistic desires of such women.
Children often serve as a pretext for female manipulators to justify their lavish spending on non-essential luxury items and services, all at the expense of a man.
Second assumption: Hypergamy existed since the beginning of
It’s easy to make assumptions about the past based on our current perspective. However, there were different societal structures in the past. In the past, women didn’t have the same freedom of choice when it came to choosing a partner. They didn’t have access to dating apps like Tinder, Facebook, Instagram, or the internet. They lived in tribes of 10 to 30 people and had limited options for male partners. I have studied the mating rituals of some African tribes and didn’t observe any evidence of hypergamy.
In these tribes, people had similar backgrounds and much fewer assets than today. In some societies, arranged marriages were the norm for centuries, where neither the bride nor the groom had a say. In primitive tribes, caste systems, and communist societies, hypergamy was not present.
Hypergamy is related to the increasing household wealth in the world. It’s a sociological behavior that’s only possible because households are wealthier today than they were in the past, in a liberal and non-religious world. I’m not criticizing liberalism or atheism, it’s just a fact. People have more assets than their predecessors.
Furthermore, manipulators try to use false arguments to justify hypergamy. They have to find a way to encourage men to spend money on women. These female manipulators are revisionists who recreate history to make you believe that it’s traditional for men to work hard and spend money on women. However, if you look into the history of your country, you’ll find that hypergamy didn’t exist in the past. Hypergamy is a modern expression of greed.