I wrote a book called “how toxic women manipulate men?” that you can find on Amazon. Consequently, I still analyze manipulation techniques targeting men.
I see a general trend. The techniques to manipulate men get stealthier.
The misleading first impression: They hide their true feathers:
We met a woman got committed to a man in Paris. They moved together in an apartment and they were happy. She had no expectations for the first years. At some point, she decided it was enough and pressured her boyfriend to move to the coast. She pressured him to buy a first 300000€ house. They lived 45 minutes drive from their office. They could have found a house 15 minutes away from their workplace for 35% cheaper
It was not enough, she asked him to buy a 500,000€ house because they had 3 children always near the coast where the house prices are the highest.
The Illusion of Wealth: Women Influenced by Influencers Who Fake Their Fortune
Women often vaguely describe their source of income to conceal their financial dependence on men and to maintain the appearance of a desired lifestyle. They take pictures and videos of themselves in luxurious locations, cars, and resorts, and then share these images on social media platforms like Instagram and Facebook. This is done to pressure their dates into spending significant amounts of money on them.
However, the reality may be different. They may rely on orbiters to pay their bills without a long-term plan.
The workload excuse: household chores & Children
Some women pretend to be always busy doing household chores or taking care of children. However, things have never been as easy as today.
With the advancements in technology, housework has become much easier and less time-consuming. Appliances like robot vacuum cleaners, washing machines, dishwashers, and the availability of readymade food have made it so that women no longer have to spend as much time on household chores as they did in the past. However, some women may use their children as an excuse to make it seem like they are very busy.
In contrast, 100 years ago, women had a much heavier workload at home. Not only did they have to take care of their children, but they also had to do tasks like cleaning clothes at the local lavoir, boiling milk to kill bacteria, cleaning with a broom, and preparing vegetables by hand. These tasks were much more time-consuming and labor-intensive than the household chores of today. However a day was already 24 hours long.
According to data from the U.S. Census Bureau, the average number of children per woman in the United States in 1914 was around 3.5. In comparison, the total fertility rate (TFR) in the United States in 2020 was estimated to be around 1.64 children per woman. It is difficult to predict exactly what the TFR will be in 2024, but it is likely to remain below replacement level (2.1 children per woman). Therefore, it is safe to say that the average number of children per woman in the USA has decreased significantly from 1914 to 2024.
Power of persuasion is manipulation
That is when a woman tells a situation and make you believe that this situation is normal. For instance, every man has to marry a woman under a classic wedding agreement. Every man has to pay the mortgage for his wife. Every man has to open a joint bank account with his wife or girlfriend. The goal of the power of persuasion is to make believe that a man has to be a slave to women. It is his fate.
Also, they destroy the reputation of their past husband and past boyfriend to make people believe that they are angels and that men are responsible for all their problems.
Mirroring
A woman may pretend to share the same political views, favorite foods, hobbies, and sports as you in order to present herself as the ideal girlfriend or wife.