Even today, a common misconception among many men is that lounge bars and nightclubs are the best places to meet potential partners. However, numerous surveys on how people meet suggest otherwise. In fact, all nightlife locations combined account for only 8% to 10% of the places where couples first met. Let’s start by examining this misconception. We are sorry, we don’t have reference to the study we investigated because its website was shut down.
We calculated that in 90% of the cases, you will meet your next girlfriend or your wife in the day.
Following the covid19, less young young people go out to nightclubs. So, I think it is even more difficult to meet someone in these establishments than before.
I have done an experiment in the Starbucks coffee shops of London and Brighton in the UK. I have decided to work from different Starbucks coffee shops and looked around. I very rarely noticed women who seemed to be single women.
Networking:
If you’re someone who doesn’t know many women, such as an expat, it’s crucial to join social networks where you can meet and connect with women. When you move to a new city, one of the main challenges is that you may not have any established social networks in your new location. Therefore, it’s important to actively seek out new networks of people where you can meet and get to know new women. By doing so, you increase your chances of finding a compatible partner.
Day pick-up places:
In my opinion, the best places to meet women are typically during the day rather than at night. However, finding these locations requires some effort, such as researching online, scouting out potential spots, and setting aside time to visit them. Nonetheless, the investment of time and effort can be worthwhile for those seeking to connect with women in a more natural and authentic setting.