It is important to approach relationships with a rational mindset rather than solely relying on emotions such as love. When considering a potential partner, it is crucial to take into account their job skills and degree. If a woman lacks a job-oriented degree or job experience, it may indicate that you will have to financially support her in the future. Additionally, in Western societies, women even without job skills or experience may have higher expectations and demands in the relationship. Therefore, it is essential to evaluate a potential partner’s career prospects and financial independence before committing to a relationship.
These job occupations that are a disaster in the making:
Women who work in certain industries, such as dance, performing arts, modeling, sex work, webcam modeling, theater may face financial challenges later in life if they do not transition to more stable and lucrative careers. This can potentially place a significant financial burden on their partners. It is important for individuals in these fields to consider their long-term career goals and plan accordingly to ensure financial stability in the future.
Let’s take a real life example:
A Romanian woman I know worked as a webcam model until the age of 36. As she aged, her body became less attractive, and she had to switch to a different job. However, her resume was empty because she couldn’t include her 15-year career as a sex worker. Additionally, she hadn’t saved any money during that time. As a result, she had to start from scratch and took a job as a barmaid in a night lounge bar in Bucharest, earning only 600€ per month. At that time, she was single. This situation highlights the importance of planning for the future and having a diverse set of job skills, especially in industries that may not provide long-term stability or financial security.
If a man had decided to share his life with her, he would have encountered significant problems.
Unemployed women have requests
I have frequently observed situations where a man with a good job is financially supporting his wife’s entertainment or career pursuits. For example, I recall a colleague whose unemployed wife wanted to study photography at a private school and requested that he pay for an iMac and a professional camera, totaling over $10,000 USD.
There are numerous instances of women who do not want to work and expect their husbands or boyfriends to financially support them. This behavior is more common than one might think.
Unemployed women use children
There are women who desire to have children in order to stop working, and they may ask their husbands to comply with their expectations. It can be challenging to deny the requests of a pregnant woman or a woman with young children. I have observed this behavior in Russian and French women.
For instance, I know of a French woman who didn’t have a job and asked her boyfriend to buy a house that was an hour’s drive away from his workplace, even though they could have bought a house just 10 minutes away. She then had a baby, making it difficult for him to criticize her requests. As a result, he ended up taking out a 30-year mortgage. This woman didn’t have a useful degree or job experience that could help her in the job market (she had a social sciences degree). This is why men should consider a woman’s degree and job experience before dating her.
It may be difficult for men to understand, but when the timing is right and a woman knows how to ask for what she wants, the sky is the limit. In such situations, men need to be very strong, or they may end up being taken advantage of.
Men don’t value hardworking women enough
I would like to highlight the positive aspects of hardworking women who have stable jobs. Unfortunately, there are still not enough men who give them the attention they deserve. For instance, I know a lab researcher who is dedicated to her job and has made significant discoveries. However, few men are interested in her, failing to recognize the benefits of being with a psychologically stable woman who earns her own money.
I am 46 years old, and up until now, I have never heard a man tell me: “I met a woman, she is respectful, she has a stable and well-paid job.”
Burden
In a rational world, women with unstable ephemeral careers such as dancers, influencers, sociology students, singers, supermodels, sex workers, actresses should struggle to find a partner. A supermodel career will likely end when she turns 24.
Many of these women will become a burden to their husbands or boyfriends, who may have to support them financially. Some women may engage in artistic pursuits while their husbands work hard to support them.
Unfortunately, too many men still commit to women who have unstable lives and no significant income. On the other hand, a female hairdresser can be a more stable and reliable partner. Everyone needs a hairdresser, and she can do this job at 40 years old, work anywhere in the world, and even become a business owner.